::The birth of my Prince Mateen & Pengalaman bersalin di Hospital Serdang for 2nd time::

So, I promised to blog about him last 2 months. Tapi since ada 3 kids nih, kelam kabut jadinya. Memang takda masa to open laptop. Long entry k.

Why I chose Zayn Mateen. Since dulu lagi suka dengar nama Zayn Malik. A guy from 1D tuh. Even im not a fan pon, tp nama dia sedap disebut. I suka Zayn and my husband suka nama Malique. Mati2 we all nak letak nama Malique. Tp bila pikir cam retis sangat even ada makna. There u go, in IG ada my Igers friend nama anak dia Matyn. Sedap je dgr. Then the viral Prince  Mateen. So I google the meaning of Mateen. Means kekuatan. Okay, mcm okay sangat. So terus lock.

Zayn Mateen was born on 7th Sept  2017. Malam plak tuh. lagi 1.40 minutes nak masuk due date dia betul, 8/9/2017. Plus, first time experience bersalin malam. Rupanya sama je busy kat hospital tu mcm bersalin siang. I was worried, sbb takda tanda langsung nak bersalin masa 6th sept. Sbb Izz lahir pun 2 days before due. Takkan lah mamat ni pun lambat. On 7th husband decided pick up my kids dkt Johor. Memandangkan I takde tanda bersalin. Hence, my in law dah tak boleh tolong jaga sebab school dah start and my BIL dah nak balik UTM. So I agreed lah suruh hubs amik. My sis kata boleh tgk kejap since dia can work from home for few days.

On 7th morning, husband I dah balik Johor and I so rajin pergi keluarkan baby cot, and kemas bilik belakang. Menyapu satu rumah lagi. Then call pizza antar lunch. At 1pm tgh tgk tv, rasa cam period pain. Consistent period pain. Means contraction lah tuh. Mild contraction. Track guna phone mmg consistent. At 2pm Makin kuat. Tp before that I call husband cakap contraction dah ada, and he said he is on the way from Johor. He called my sister skali minta tolong I. So I call my sister jugak ckp contraction dah ada, she will sampai at 3pm. Between 3-3.45pm tu, lepak kejap kat rumah my mom. Kiranya dah kuat lah contraction time tu and terus pergi hospital Serdang.

4pm reached there. Tp nurse kat counter nak tolak pergi Hospital Kajang or Putrajaya sebab ada 20 patient tunggu katil dlm PAC. 20 patients tu tak semestinya nak bersalin tau. Ada yg belum due tp I ketuban dah leak, ada yg rasa sakit, ada yg dah ada show. Ada yg panik sebab tak rasa pergerakan baby. But we decided sanggup nak stay sebab I dah sakit sangat even can tahan lagi. 4pm sampai and register, almost 6pm baru panggil masuk dalam utk check BP and VE. Tp before that at 5pm husband sampai hospital with kids. Rindu sangat sbb 2 weeks tak jumpa and makin besar plak diorang. Sempat jumpa diorang before deliver baby. My sis brought them home and jaga for a while sementara husband stay at hospital tunggu i. 

So I met Dr Fatin and her boss, Dr lelaki okey. I can't remember his face tp very polite. First time I kene entertain dgn Dr lelaki. Her boss buat scan and found out air ketuban dah kurang. Tp serious mmg tak rasa masa bila leak. Then masa nak buat VE Dr Fat so nice and suggest me to talk to her boss yang biar dia yg buat VE. Pheww, dia bagi. So Dr Fatin yg buat VE. 5cm it is. Dia kata muka relax je, tak sakit ke? Sakit weh. So I tunggu dkt PAC first, makan and keluar masuk jumpa husband. Sebab time tu mmg dah sakit.  Tak boleh nk duduk diam. If duduk dkt PAC pun bukan borak. Tgk handphone. Nak join org borak pun no mood. Dlm kul 8 lebih Dr Fatin panggil lagi. VE again still 5cm. I still pakai baju biasa k. 4cm above patutnya dah kena tukar baju sepital. Doctor lupa, I pun lupa. Keluar kejap jumpa husband. Then masuk balik. Duduk balik dekat PAC. Ladies2 yg duduk kat situ relax je borak2. Takde yg tahan sakit mcm I and org sebelah. Then sempat borak sepatah dua dgn budak2 depan I. Diorang tanya, sakit sangat ke? I cakap , a'ah. Diorang tanya dh bp cm. I ckp 5cm tadi. Diorang terkejut. eh kenapa tak tukar baju sepital lagi? Br teringat. Aa'h eh. I tak pikir baju dah, pikir sakit je nih. Then I bangun. Dlm 9.45cm mcm tuh. I pg jumpa Dr Fatin. I ckp kt dia, Doc I tak yah tukar baju sepital ke? Then dia gelak. YaAllah, saya lupa. Kejap2. Dia terus amik baju for me. Then I request another VE sbb sakit makin kerap. Tp air ketuban tak pecah lagi. Doc terus buat VE dulu then baru I salin baju. Doc check dah 6cm. Dia announce kat Dr lagi satu. agaknya suruh standby kot dah masuk active labor stage. Lepas salin baju, i nampak org sebelah I dtg ckp sakit dah kuat. Tup2 dia dah kena bawa masuk labor room terus. Dr Fatin suruh duduk atas katil terus tak leh pg mana dah. WA husband ckp sakit and minta maaf. I suruh dia jaga budak2 baik2. Ishh, mcm2 pikir. Husband boleh masuk bila wife dah masuk labor room. Masa kat PAC kena tunggu kat luar. Then around 10pm Dr perempuan lain datang, nak pecahkan air ketuban. 5 mins lepas air ketuban pecah, I panggil nurse I cakap mcm nak teran sangat. Kelakarnya, I beg to nurse ckp I serious ni nurse, nak push ni. Nurse tu pun melayan, saya pun serious la nih sambil tolak katil masuk labor. Dr Fatin nampak I kena tolak dah, siap cakap chaiyok. Mmg sporting dia. 

Setiap kali nak push, sakit time tu lah yg unbearable. Allah je yang tahu. Cakap dgn husband pun, even dia reply ya B tau sakit sangat, bukannya dia tau pun sebenarnya. :P Sampai depan pintu labor room, kene tunggu kejap sebab org kat dlm br settle kemas. Depan pintu tu masa tgh mengiring dah rasa mcm kepala baby dah keluar skit. Tarik nafas dalam2 and hembus slow2 pun tak membantu lah kiranya. Masuk bilik, GP dah prepare. Kene pindah katil. This time, kaki tak payah letak atas paddle mcm basikal tuh.. ahahha. Dulu masa delivered first and second baby dua2 kaki kene letak kat situ. Rasanya GP dah tau baby ni skali push je leh kuar sbb kepala dah nampak. First push tak lepas sbb nafas pendek, mcm tak prepare sbb tiba2 GP kata push now tp contraction masa tu baru abis. Datang je 2nd contraction tu masa pandang perut nampak kepala baby. Pandang perut tarik nafas dalam2 terus push. Alhamdulillah, keluar dengan jayanya. Alhamdulillah, senang sangat. Sebab masa active labor tuh, lepas pecah ketuban, 15-20mins je kena tahan sakit. Baby keluar je, sakit hilang. Phew. Ajaib sangat kuasa Allah. Tau tak masa ni, nurses tak sempat panggil husband. Sebab masa tu mmg dah kelam kabut nak bersalin. Sebab kepala baby dah keluar. Husband punya lah setia tunggu kat luar ingat dpt teman bersalin. Masa ni pikir, husband takde pun takpe. Kang ada kena cubit, kena pukul kena marah. ahahhaa. I yg dosa. :P GP I ni, muka serious tapi baik hati woo. Dia kata kalau I tak teran depan pintu tadi takde koyak pun. Ahahah. Ni skit je. Time tu pikir, sakit jahit, sakit kena seluk for VE or sakit kena seluk nak keluarkan plasenta pun tak sesakit masa contraction tu okay. 

There you are my Zayn Mateen, keluar je dari perut GP terus letak atas badan for bonding moment. So senyap. Cry skit2. Jari panjang2 mcm abah dia. Sementara nak tunggu abah dia masuk, I terus azan and iqamat kan dulu. Baca ayat kursi and zikir banyak2. Takut benda2 tak elok kat hospital. Lepas GP keluarkan plasenta husband baru masuk. Dia ingat I tak bersalin lagi. Surprised. Mmg dia terkejut dah bersalin. And yes, I so energetic lepas bersalin. Baby lepas mandi, baru husband azan and iqamat kan dia.

I told you earlier that registration counter kata takde bilik kan. But don't worry, sapa dah delivered mmg akan ada bilik. Takkan lah takde kan. So malas tuh we moved from labor room 14 to labor room 6. Ada few labor room diorang jadikan, bilik lepas bersalin since katil kat ward atas full lagi. Bilik dia lagi okay. Mcm Double bedded dkt private hospital. Toilet dia besar and cantik. Tp aircond terlalu kuat. I dah lah tak tahan sejuk. Neigbour I adalah girl yang sama sakit dgn I dkt PAC tadi. Baby dia lahir at 10pm, I 10.20pm. Tgh malam tu around 3am. Kami berdua surrender jugak kena check dgn Dr lelaki. Dr datang nak check jahitan and nak check if ada darah beku. Terpaksa k. I dok pikir ni Doc pompuan, ni doc pompuan. Hahaha. 

So I stayed at hospital 3 days and 2 nights. On 2nd day, tu pun petang sangat baru dpt naik ward. Ingatkan duduk dkt labor room tuh boleh balik on 2nd day. Sebab masa Ray and Izz dok hospital 2 hr semalam je if takde apa2 complication. Ni Dr cakap kena naik ward je and stay sehari baru can balik. Try request 1st class, memanjang tak dpt, penuh.  2nd class kena que. Sepanjang stay dkt labor room 6 and ward kat atas for 2nd class, semua okay. Cuma ada 1 night tu, I mmg pissed off with 1 nurse. Dh la smlm tak tido. Look young. I baru je letak Zayn dlm cot sbb dah lama bf. Then dia berbunyi skit. Bukan cry ok. Dia merengek skit. Dia dtg ckp, Puan maybe dia minum susu. I ckp, I br je bf dia. Tp I angkat jugak peluk and bf again, tp dia xnak. So I letak balik. Dia leh sound cakap. Puan, susukan dia. I look at her and I said, yes I know what am I doing. Bukan skali ni I br dpt baby kan.  My baby memanjang minum, Plus nipple crack pulak. Di tambah lagi pulak bila BF, rahim berdenyut. Sakit. I guess nurse tu still tak paham2. Hampir mengamuk, but memang dah tak larat. tak tidur since delivered Mateen. Mcm sejenis perasaan takut je nak tidur bila lepas delivered kena jaga baby sendiri. Sama mcm Rayhana dulu. Zaffran senang skit, sebab masa tu try delivered kat private hospital and dia duduk kat nursery. Nurse yang banyak tolong.

Next day tuh mmg pray banyak2 dapat balik. At 10am Doc datang cakap nak check baby. Skali check jaundice and bagi another injection. Rasanya BCG. Then Doktor pakar and pelatih round. Cakap boleh balik if baby takda jaundice and jahitan baik. Pray hard masa ni. Even ward okay tapi tak sama dengan rumah kan. Doctor datang cakap baby boleh balik. Tak nampak jaundice bawa lampu purple tuh. Plus doctor pun dah stop kan nurse amik darah dia every 4 hours since dia lahir sebab I ada GDM. Last Doctor performed VE sebaik nurse. Check jahita. All ok. Oh ya, nurse accidentally left my file atas meja bed I, skali check diorang mark as high risk patient. Mak oi, I do believe sebab age. Reason diorang list, anemia, GDM, previous history like miscarriage, nose bleed.

Nak tau berapa overall? Rm225 for 3 days 2 nights. Worth sangat. Cuma sapa yg tak suka manage the pain depan org ramai tuh, tak sesuai lah pilih gov hospital. Sapa yg tak banyak songeh, maybe okay. Cuma tak dapat bilik sorang la utk husband teman skali lepas delivered.

So overall, again pengalaman bersalin kat Hospital Serdang kali ni okay lagi. Excellent. Nurse and Doc sporting. Cuma ada certain yg mcm berlagak tu buat tak tau dgn dia sudah. 

::Oh hey, it's been a while lah, gang!::

So I have 2 stories to update rasanya. So far 2 lah, the most important thing jadi to me k. 

Firstly, Alhamdulillah, I just gave birth to my handsome lil man named Zayn Mateen on 7th September 2017. This time, bersalin dekat Hospital Serdang balik. 

Second, my current status as Stay at Home Mom. Waaaaa, SAHM gitew. 

I'll update about those tomorrow, inshaAllah. Oh ya, feel like to blog again even tak lah berapa ramai reader. Ahaks. Cuma few things, i suka share. 

Stay tune.

:: Nur Rayhana & Pengalaman Bersalin di Hospital Serdang::

Assalamualaikum.. Some of you might know that I safely gave birth to my lil angel on Monday, 15th April 2013. Alhamdulillah, I'm so blessed with her present in my life. We named her Nur Rayhana since my pregnancy reached 4 months. I can't describe my feelings now. Syukur sangat2 to ALLAH. Rezeki yang tak terhingga nilainye. I'm so in love with her. Yes, Ibu loves you so much Rayhana. 

Seeing Izam called himself Abah pun rasa happy sangat. Tp hubby I ni mcm Pak lawak skit.  Dok selalu geram dengan baby sendiri. My Abah, Ibu, sis and lil brother dok called themselves Atuk lah, Nenek lah, Mak Ngah lah, Acu lah rasa kelakar. Ada yang takmo panggil makcik nak gak Aunty and Uncle. Amboi. Like my bro and SIL. :P

D.OB: 15th April 2013

Weight: 3.03KG

 P.S: Nurse, awak salah spell nama my Abah.

Contractions come and go

Okay, I citer skit pasal pengalaman bersalin dan pengalaman stay at Hospital Serdang. Monday morning around 4.50am tetiba I terjaga rasa sakit mcm period pain. Tp kejap je. So I ignore. Lepas tu at 5.30am, I rasa sakit yang sama lagi. So I pg toilet rasa nak pee pee. :) Then, spot something with blood. So I said, must be bloody show. Takpe tunggu dulu. Time tu baru terhegeh2 nak download application contraction tracker. Few minutes later, I start track. Gap 5 minutes apart. So I ckp kat diri sendiri, it's time kot. My mum bangun nak Subuh, I cakap kat dia terus. Time tu sakit leh tahan lagi. So I mandi, prepare ape yang patut and ckp kt  my husband I rasa dah masa pergi hospital. Husband I tido kat umah, I time tu kat umah my mum. Since work from home and last week of pregnancy I stay kat umah my mum. 

Around 7:45am, baru we all keluar rumah. Hubby tanya KPMC or Serdang? So we decide pergi Hospital Serdang. Nasib baik sakit leh tahan. Dah register semua, tunggu turn diorg panggil utk masuk PAC area. I tengok semua org perut besar2, tengok diri sendiri kecik. :) So when they called my name, bp, urine semua dah amik. So tunggu Doc dtg check.  At 10am, Doc check bukaan. I was dilated 4cm. So they suggested to check again at 2pm. 2pm lama tuh, so I pergi makan dulu. Lepak dengan hubby. Then Doc Sharmila check again.   This time I was dilated 6cm. So Doc suggested tunggu or jumpa hubby kat luar ke or duduk kat PAC waiting area. Kat situ ada lah few people yang boleh borak sama. Sebab apa kene tunggu, katil penuh. Ntah mcmana, hari tuh ramai plak yg nk bersalin. Nasib baik dtg awal. I dah pesan awal2 kat hubby, bila dah bersalin terus pergi counter depan book 1st class nyer ward. Nak duduk sorang2. Nak  menangis ke, nak suruh sape2 teman ke, boleh. Itu procedure diorg kata receptionist kat counter tu lah kan. Dah bersalin, baru leh pergi book. 

In Labour Room

At 3.15pm I cakap kat hubby, sakit makin kuat. Let say nak deliver nanti, diorg akan panggil hubby masuk. Before that, dah minta maaf kat my parents and in law. So masuk PAC balik , I ckp kat nurse sakit makin kuat and kerap. Selang 1 min. So diorg suruh I baring kat katil dulu. Time tu sakit dia, mak oi I tak leh tahan dah. I merengek mcm budak kecik, keep baca surah yunus, selawat, istighfar but sakit dia kuat sangat. I called nurse, I cakap tak tahan sakit dia kuat. I nak pain killer. Begging for pain killer okeh?? Nurse takmo bagi, dia kata nanti susah awak nak push. Sebab tak rasa nanti. I rasa nak pee plus buang air besar. Nurse cakap tak boleh jugak. Then Doc datang check bukaan lagi still 6cm and dia pecahkan air ketuban. Dah la nak pecahkan air ketuban punya lama. Tp Doc yang pecahkan air ketuban ni siap nyanyi2 plak. Dia tak tau ke tengah sakit masa tuh. So once the air ketuban pecah, fuhhh.. sakit dia lagi lah. Cannot describe. Then, I tengok perut I dah mengeras lain macam and I rasa nak buang air besar sangat. I terus panggil nurse and Doc cakap nurse saya rasa mcm nak push. Tak tahan! Nak nangis tak boleh. Sebab sakit sangat. Tak pernah rasa sakit mcm ni. :( Around 3.50pm diorg terus tolak I pergi labor room. They called my hubby to teman. Bila nampak hubby I, muka dia nmpk cuak. Tp dia kene stop kat counter depan labor room utk register or sign ape ntah. So dlm tu, stuff nurse Kumutha, check dah dilate 9cm. Ready to push dah. So she called Doc Farah Dilla, few nurse came to support me. So time diorg ready barang2 dlm labor room, I cakap I nak push. Diorg ckp tunggu2. Then, Doc Farah bg guidance. Tarik nafas dlm2 bila rasa sakit and teran sambil pandang perut. Teran mcm nk buang air besar? I dah la jarang rasa mcm tuh. Camna nak feeling? Teran2 for few times tak lepas. Diorg suruh curi nafas. Curi nafas? How? Try2 mcm tak lepas. I teran tang muka lah mostly nye. Hubby ada and I ckp sakit sangat B. Syg buat apa ni yang rasa susah sangat nk bersalin. Hubby try to calm me down. Suruh baca surah Yunus. Then dia kene marah dgn I sbb pegang kepala I masa tgh push. Hehehe.. Ampun B. Sbb I tak leh gerak. Push kali ke 4 or 5 I rasa something yang sakit,  mcm orang cucuk jarum. I sempat stop meneran I tanya apa tuh? Nurse cakap takde apa2 puan, terus meneran. Push yang lepas tu, tak lepas  jugak. So Doc Farah decide to vacuum my baby. Hubby kene keluar time ni. So while they preparing the procedure, sakit dtg. So I said I nak push, this is the time I rasa kat bawah tu lain macam. Then, Doc suddenly letak something atas perut, I pandang rupanya my baby.. Skin color pucat lagi. All the pain hilang mcm tu aje. I terus pegang my baby then terus dgr suara dia. Rasa lega hanya Allah je yg tau. Terus panjatkan syukur Alhamdulillah, dpt lahirkan Rayhana secara normal and dia selamat dilahirkan. The preparation to vacuum my baby was aborted. Nasib baik tak vacuum. Few minutes later, placenta pun keluar dah. Then, I have to deal with another pain plak. Episiotomy! Tp serious, sakit tu terasa masa jahit bahagian kulit, bahagian dalam tak sangat. Penat jangan cakap. Rasa mamai bila dah letih sangat. Sambil tu I borak2 dengan Doctor. Then Stuff nurse Kumutha datang balik, bawa my baby utk breastfeed. Walaupun I tak sure ada ke tak, I bg je. 

First time tengok baby sendiri depan mata, perasaan tuh sangat best.  Lepas doc settled. Then hubby masuk balik. Dapatlah dia tengok Rayhana masa tgh breastfeed. Hubby terus hulur tgn dia n kiss dahi. Syukur sangat. Nk peluk hubby kuat2, tp x leh gerak. 

Hubby only managed to book 2nd class as 1st class full. Takde yg discharge lg hr tu. I was told by hubby 2nd class 4 bedded. Tak leh nk imagine lg time tuh bilik mcmana. So lepas kuar labor, nurse brought me to 2nd class ward. Owh, sangat okay rupanya. Senyap je. Ada 4 beds yang gap dia sangat selesa. Toilet pun selesa, ada tempat nak shower skali sebelah tuh. 2nd class 5E depan office nurse. Nak panggil diorg senang je lepas tekan button. Cepat lah diorg datang. Malam tu memang tak leh tido. Risau kan baby. Just imagine, baby ditempatkan skali dengan I. First experience, pandai2 lah handle. Tp sebenarnye, bila ada baby, skills tu automatic je datang. Tiba2 I pandai breastfeed baby,  pandai basuh poo poo dia, salin baju kalau muntah. I banyak berzikir mlm tuh and cakap2 dengan baby. Hee.. Only bila dia terjaga la kan. Nak tunggu next day mcm kejap je. Dah pagi, mandi and prepare to breastfeed baby lagi. Walaupun time tu ade colostrum yg likat tuh aje, tp bagi je la kan. Dr dia berlapar. Tp bila dah masuk next day, rasa lambat je sbb tak sabar nak jumpa hubby and my parents. My parents tak jumpa lagi cucu diorg. Pagi tu lagi, Doc came to see me and nak check jahitan lagi. Uwaa.. Berjalan lagi. Thank God, it was okay and she confirmed if no issues with baby, hari ni boleh discharge. Yes!! So waktu visitor datang, my parents came. Happy betul diorg. Alhamdulillah. Then hubby came. I minta hubby tanya nurse kat depan if results baby dah keluar ke belum and I boleh discharge ke tak. Yes, on 2nd day tu jugak I boleh balik. Alhmdulillah.. Dipermudahkan. 

Bila discharge you need to go through 2 guards okay. Diorg akan tengok and confirmkan details mummy and baby before bg you jalan. Ya lah, to avoid case yg tak sepatutnya. Overall, Hospital Serdang adalah sangat okay.